When we change the way we make love, even the details of our world begin to change around us.

Do you catch your head nodding “yes” to some of these? If so, you are ready for Tantra.

• Do you sometimes feel that sex has lost its spark?
• Do you yearn for intimacy with a partner who communicates and returns your affection?
• Is your lovemaking monotonous?
• Have you ever found yourself trying on sexy underwear, experimenting with toys, watching videos, or even changing partners to keep sex exciting?
• Maybe you feel you’ve lost sexual desire for a partner that you still love?
• Are you exhausted by unspoken pressure to satisfy your partner or run the risk of them looking elsewhere?
• Do you frequently find yourself faking orgasms?

If you felt a “yes” in response to some of these questions, then Tantra can help you improve the quality of your love life.

Too often in society, a woman’s desire for love and sexual intimacy is shamefully looked upon as “immoral.” If she is unwed, her body’s actions toward fulfilling her heart’s longing may even be called “promiscuity.” Typically, a woman who dares to express her sexuality openly, or even the desire to receive attention, risks being labeled a “slut” or “harlot,” when nothing could be further from the truth. Because, what could be more beautiful than wanting to feel loved?

But Tantra is not just for women. The mass media has perpetuated a cultural misunderstanding to support a belief that men desire more sex than women. In fact, what I have learned from men is that they yearn for an altogether more fulfilling experience of sex. For instance, the media and Internet has placed overwhelming performance pressure on men that distorts the true potential that sex has to offer in the way of enriching our lives. This happens as we learn to relax and feel completely loved by our partner for who we are, not what we do. It is this intense, unnatural pressure that leads to erectile dysfunction and even more commonly, premature ejaculation. Most men are relieved to discover there is a natural way to sustain lovemaking indefinitely, so they and their partner can revel in the shared lasting joy of sex, without effort.

In truth, the human desire for love and sexual fulfillment is a powerful ally in fulfilling the joyous destiny we are meant to live. As such, the ancient secrets of Tantra reveal to us how we can focus our creative sexual energy toward attracting loving relationships and living the extraordinary lives of our dreams. “Discover Tantra” is an invitation to explore the precious keys of Tantra. Beginning with the articles I’ve written about my experiences, I invite you to learn more about this incredibly misunderstood art of love, the perception of which has been grossly distorted. Therefore I encourage you to ask questions and attend private sessions or workshops with my husband and me.

Then shall we begin? Allow me to share with you How the Dating Circus Led Me to Tantra.